Secret sex date
It’s often associated with the male erotic imagination, and it’s certainly one of the most widespread male fantasies, invoking images of double-wived patriarchs and the pleasures of the harem.But women are catching up as it becomes more acceptable for us to admit we’d like to be with two hot men at once, or perhaps a man and another woman.Sometimes your ability to fantasize is the only freedom you have. The English philosopher John Richter said, “Fantasy rules over two-thirds of the universe, the past and the future, while reality is confined to the present.”Fantasy—the original “theater of the mind”—makes up a huge portion of human consciousness.
I base my observations on my own professional and personal experience, which I believe is as good a “study” on fantasy as any.
If you look hard enough, you can find a study to prove any theory about sexual fantasies and another one to disprove it.
Maybe this is because it is very difficult to measure fantasies except through questionnaires, and it is so easy and tempting to lie on questionnaires, especially when it comes to opening up about our deepest, darkest, most embarrassing, secret sexual fantasies.
While such a scenario might involve nothing more than kissing, Perfect Lover fantasies can entail sexual intercourse in every position.
Oral sex (giving or receiving) is a big favorite, followed by manual sex, anal sex (giving or receiving) and mutual masturbation.